A divorce is unquestionably one of life’s most stressful and traumatic events. As you embark on this process, you will have a lot of questions. When do I file for divorce? What happens after I file? Can those text messages that I regretted sending be used against me in the litigation? Who will get the house? What divorce lawyer should I hire? And countless other questions. The vast majority of divorces are settled out of court. In many cases, the process is amicable. However, I have seen many divorces begin with both parties seemingly committed to a smooth resolution only to see these good intentions collapse under the emotional baggage that accompanies most break-ups–anger, greed, bitterness, jealousy, etc. The uncertainty of divorce litigation is, in part, why it is critical to hire the right Austin divorce attorney. You need an advocate prepared to wear any number of hats, from a facilitator who can guide a low-conflict divorce to a speedy resolution to an aggressive divorce litigator who is prepared to champion your rights when a quick settlement is not possible.
Below is a description of how the Texas divorce process unfolds procedurally–the steps and requirements for filing for divorce–and the stages of the litigation process generally. Substantive issues relating to child custody and property division are critical areas that have their own dedicated pages on this site.
In addition to no-fault grounds, a petitioner (or the respondent if he or she files a counter-petition for divorce) may seek a divorce on fault grounds. Available fault grounds include cruelty, adultery, abandonment, and felony conviction and imprisonment of a spouse. Fault and no-fault grounds can be alleged together in the same petition. Proving a fault ground can impact how the court decides other issues in the divorce, including child custody and property division. For example, if you can prove that your spouse committed adultery or abused you during the marriage, the court can award you a larger share of the community property. I am frequently asked whether a spouse’s conduct during a period of “separation” is relevant once a party files for divorce. The answer is “yes.” Texas does not recognize legal separation. You and your spouse are married until a final decree of divorce is entered by a court. This means, for example, that being romantically involved with someone other than your spouse while “separated” constitutes adultery under Texas law and can be used against you in a future divorce proceeding.
A temporary orders hearing is not necessary in every case. However, because of the gravity of the stakes in a temporary orders hearing–the results of which can impact the entire trajectory of your case–hiring an Austin divorce attorney with strong courtroom skills is vital. Surprisingly, many divorce lawyers are fearful of the courtroom and try desperately to avoid it. These type of divorce attorneys will push you to reach a negotiated settlement on the eve of your hearing on terms that might not be in your best interest. Aside from being intimidated by the courtroom, some divorce lawyers run high-volume, assembly-line practices and are incentivized to finalize your case as quickly as possible. As a result, they don’t have the time or inclination to properly prepare for contested hearings where they might actually be required to make arguments, present evidence, and cross-examine witnesses.
I do not run that kind of practice. I approach every case with the expectation that it will involve a contested hearing and prepare accordingly.
Relief issued by a court at a temporary orders hearing can include the following:
- Requiring a sworn inventory and appraisement of all real and personal property owned or claimed by the parties, and a list of all debts and liabilities owed by the parties.
- Requiring temporary support of either spouse.
- Requiring the payment of divorce attorney fees and expenses.
- Awarding one spouse exclusive occupancy of the residence during the pendency of the case.
- Prohibiting one or both parties from spending funds beyond what the court determines to be for reasonable and necessary living expenses.
- Awarding one spouse exclusive control of a party’s usual business or occupation.
In addition to the foregoing relief, a court may issue temporary orders restraining the parties from destroying the parties’ tangible property, communicating by telephone or in writing in a profane manner, making threats of bodily injury, among other relief. If child custody is an issue in the divorce, the court will enter temporary orders regarding custody of the children, child support, and visitation during the pendency of the case. The above list of potential orders is not exclusive. The court has broad discretion to enter any order necessary to protect the parties, property, and children during the litigation.
A temporary orders hearing is like a mini-trial. Each party will be permitted to testify and put on evidence, including witnesses, regarding the matters at issue. In a child custody case, for example, a party may call family members, friends, neighbors, teachers, etc. to testify regarding a party’s parenting abilities and relationship with the children. The key distinction between a temporary orders hearing and a final trial is the element of surprise. Because a temporary orders hearing can occur within days after the divorce petition is filed, the parties haven’t had an opportunity to conduct discovery and determine what evidence exists to support the other side’s case. As a result, a temporary orders hearing can be a trial by ambush. You don’t know what witnesses your spouse will bring to the hearing, much less what these people might say about your character and fitness as a parent. You don’t know what text messages, e-mails or other evidence might be used to impeach your credibility.
Conducting proper discovery is invasive and costly. But it is essential to gathering the information necessary to properly evaluate the merits of the parties’ respective claims and defenses, minimizing the potential for surprises at trial, and determining whether settlement is appropriate. When used strategically, discovery can help a party achieve critical bargaining leverage and bring about a quick settlement. I have seen parties capitulate and settle early on in a case rather than submit to the cost and inconvenience of producing reams of sensitive documents or sitting for a six hour deposition.
If the parties cannot resolve their issues through mediation, the next step is a final trial before a judge or jury. In a divorce suit, either party may demand a jury trial. A jury can decide custody of the children as well as the characterization and valuation of property. Whether a jury trial is preferable to a bench trial (where the judge decides the outcome) necessarily depends on the facts of your case and the amount of money you’re willing to spend.